Death. It is the one thing that I absolutely hate. It sucks cause the reality is people die and if you think about it, life is really short and the unexpected happens all the time. When we live, we don't necessarily think about death or losing a loved one but when it happens, things just turn upside down and it is probably one of the most painful experiences that all humans go through.
I wish everyone had a chance to see their loved ones once more before they left Earth because nothing hurts more than to unexpectedly lose someone you love.
Loss has never been easy for me and no matter how strong I appear to be, I always end up feeling pain and sorrow regardless. Just because loss happens on a day-to-day basis doesn't mean its insignificant because it actually is the opposite. Loss is significant because they change and shape the way we are as people and suffice to say, we all go through the stage where we begin to realise that as we get older, things become much more challenging no matter how easy life seems to be.
We all get to the stage in life where we lose someone that's important and we begin to question why it happened in the first place. We start blaming the world for it and we begin to face the harsh reality that we should have done more for that person. We should have appreciated their existence more.
It is so hard to keep up with people's lives which is why I do my best to see the people that are important to me. The ones that have stuck by me in the worst kind of circumstances possible because they are the ones who matter. I wish that bad things didn't happen to good people but unfortunately they do.
All my life, I never really understood why death has to happen to people because there's so much to live for and so many places to go to and see. Why couldn't people have the opportunity to exhaust all the things they've been wanting to do right before they die? At least from there, they are able to look at their life with a much greater satisfaction and have no regrets in the end because they've already accomplished those things.
All in all, it's not easy to go through loss but at the end of the day, regardless of who we are, the show must go on. We all need to carry on with our lives and accept the fact that loss is a part of life. We just need to remember that the ones that we have lost through death are the ones that will live in our memories and our hearts forever because they are the kinds of people that have made such an impact in either a big or small way.
R.I.P
